But How Does It End?

Wednesday, February 18th
But How Does it End?
By Nicole Goddard

Well hello cliffhanger! I don’t know about you, today’s reading left me wanting to know how Onesimus’ reunion with Philemon went. I’d love to think that God’s ordination of this letter in the Bible hints that Philemon received him with open, loving arms but the fact remains that we truly don’t know.

There is a chance this letter tugs at your heart a little, especially if you have someone that you could stand to reconcile with. The pain of past experiences and conversations well up inside of you the moment you hear their name. Though not legally in bondage like Onesimus was to Philemon, the thought of seeing or speaking to them sparks fear and anxiety and your overall resistance to step out.

I’m sure Onesimus was on the fence just like you, wishing he would never need to engage Philemon again. But whether he went home or continued to keep his distance, legally and consciously, Onesimus would always be bound to Philemon.

While Paul was writing directly to Philemon, I’m sure he had a similar conversation with Onesimus:

That is why I am boldly asking a favor of you. I could demand it in the name of Christ because it is the right thing for you to do. But because of our love, I prefer simply to ask you. Philemon 8-9 (Messiah pg. 205).

Friends, reconciliation is one of the great calls of a Christian life. It can look like full relational reconciliation, or it can just be a change in our heart posture toward that person. The Holy Spirit can guide you on what your reconciliation could be, but know that just like Paul, Christ will not demand it. Instead, he will simply ask you for it through his love and guiding example.